If you feel too much, there’s still a place for you here.
If you feel too much,…
+Tina Fey (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
Don’t waste your energy trying to change opinions … Do your thing, and don’t care if they like it.
Being the first to break the silence of a fight and apologize to someone is a very hard thing. Even if both have wronged, why does it sometimes feel like the other person should be the first to break the silence and apologize?
It’s hard because of pride.
We want to be on the receiving end of an apology rather than be the one giving it. If you need to give an apology it’s because you did something to hurt someone, but it you need to receive an apology it’s because someone did something to hurt you.
In your case it seems you’ve been hurt and you have hurt, so in all honesty lay down your pride about who should be first and just love them enough to apologize.
Ask yourself if it’s better to stay silent, stay distant, and stay hurt rather than make the effort to repair a relationship that matters to you. Whatever hurt you can only be fixed when dealt with. Whatever you did to wrong them can only be made right if you talk to each other about it.
Don’t let pride get in the way of communicating. Let them have the chance to apologize and to let you know how they were hurt.
Time is too precious and fleeting to waste not mending what we can.
+William D. Brown (via observando)
Failure is an event, never a person.
sometimes u might feel u look like:
and sometimes u might feel you look like this:
but just remember in both cases you’re still a masterpiece
my dear, who told you your skin wasn’t beautiful. you are the color of the earth and flowers can only grow in deep rich soil.
+Aristotle (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
To avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing.
I will allow space for all the feelings my heart holds. I will not cower or hide from myself. It’s okay to feel the ugly messy things. It’s okay to feel the burning brilliance of beauty. It’s okay to feel the soft winds of happiness and the quiet bursts of loneliness. Its okay to feel it all. It’s okay to be myself, all of myself, not just the good.
Be patient with your broken heart. Tread carefully, kindly and with love. You are mending.